I am getting married!!!
Yeah. One moment am super excited 💃💃💃 and then the next, I feel like saying ‘OK people, let’s stop here, I don’t want any change in my life, can things still be the same? Oh my gosh’. 😬 Am I alone in this? Ever felt so as the day of your wedding drew closer?
Maybe some people will say they never felt that way at all, in fact maybe they looked forward to their wedding day with so much enthusiasm and didn’t have any cold feet. Well, am happy for you.
Why am I having cold feet? I had to ask my self. Am I being selfish or short sighted? Am I loosing sight of the reason for my marriage? These questions and more crossed my mind.
My friend the Holy Spirit brought some answers that eased my fears and that’s what I want to share with you today.
You see, there’s this notion that some ladies who were actively doing ministry, I mean preaching and winning souls with passion suddenly become cold after getting married. Then people ask why, what happened to all their fire and passion they demonstrated when they were single ladies.
You see, I don’t want anything like that to happen to me, thanks to God who brought light to me on the matter. Follow me😃.
It’s a calling
First, you must understand that marriage is a calling, it’s a ministry! The problem some ladies have sometimes is that they think marriage is separate from their service to God. They think ‘this is different ‘. Another group will think ‘we have served God when we are single, now let me relax and face my marriage’, another group become very overwhelmed with the excitement, preparations and attention from everyone. You know, everyone starts looking at you as the bride other a lot of woooows and hooooooo. Enjoy it while it last but don’t forget why you are going through that phase…
It’s a platform
to do ministry effectively and efficiently. Ofcourse, scripture says two are better than one and they have a better reward for their labour.
Am going to stop here, will continue to share my experiences as the journey begins.
Stay at the top! I love you !